Remaining Calm as Lines are Drawn

Drawing a line – making a boundary – it can be arbitrarily done by the architects, the planners, those who prefer knowing where things are and how they work. It can also be done thoughtfully in response to injury by those who enjoy change rather than status quo but sense hurt associated with imagined or past injury. It prevents reexperiencing the trauma to the point of paralysis.

We know that chemical weapons exist. They have been used in the past with horrific consequences.

They were used in WW1 extensively by both sides, in WWII in a horrific power imbalance to selectively destroy 2/3 of an ethnic minority. We know how bad these can be, and how strong the weapons potentially are.

Two different presidents of the US have been given the opportunity to react to their use in Syria, simply by the fact that the US is a major world player and defender. I think that the important fact to come to grips with in this situation is that east and west, Syria and the rebels, are not comfortable with the distribution of power in Syria. When this is strongly out of balance, a crisis occurs, and the world is forced to draw lines. So, let’s focus on talking this one through to a point where weapons are not used.

In my humble opinion, the testing of the sites for chemical weapons could have been performed before a military response. However, the timing of the response was designed to be immediately correlated with the action, not diffused into the ether of diplomatic possibility. There is neither applause, nor condemnation, as the uneasy silence allows each of us to confront our own feelings about intervention and force.

May each of our actions be toward world improvement in a way that is respectful.

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Rethinking the Why of Sacrifice

Passover is around the corner, and as many plan their meals, I offer an
enlightened alternative to killing an animal. From an anthropological
point of view, I view the act as a sublimation of our own fear of
death – projecting it onto a more “acceptable” target, and ritualizing
the whole action, so that our deepest anxieties are expressed and

Rather than reenact this, why not celebrate the freedom given in the
Passover? Make better choices that respect the lives of young creatures
who surely want to live. No ritual that defines us as a people should
be above a rethought in terms of compassion and more understanding.

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More Discussion

This week’s Parashah was the section dealing with G_d opening up a passage through the Red Sea for the Israelites to escape oppression. In this time of heated discussion and attempted compromise on immigration reform, the thought arises that perhaps, if a wall is built, G_d will tunnel the people through who might need to come across. Certainly, in this case, the DACA people are for the most part free to leave. Most of them are not being oppressed, they have rights. The issue is that they also are part of our communities and families, and thus their fates are enmeshed with ours, and it is a reflection on our moral character and history to treat them generously.

At the end of the day, if it means that a young cadre of people must leave their homes and families and go out into the world, and get visas and green cards to come back when the community says “WE MISS THEM”, then this is in fact more than their parents were able to do when they came. The kids are more empowered, and should not sell out their less empowered undocumented friends by building a wall that would make it more difficult for families to unite around difficulties, etc.

So. DACA period. No wall period. We don’t want the problems of fewer than 3% of the US population to dictate the freedom of the rest of the population. And make no mistake about it, a wall will be a pain for everyone who wants to come and go across the border.

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On the question of the wall

I would rather live in the rest of the world free to move among countries than live in this country surrounded by a physical barrier.

Although I think it is disgusting for DACA immigrants to be held hostage over this question, if the only way that they can gain legitimacy is for us to agree for a wall to be built, then I (arrogantly) make the decision for them, and abandon their cause.

A country with a physical wall is not my country.

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Peaceful thoughts

So, I went down to the capitol for the protest. We were a few thousand in the middle of the day on a weekday. I got a $50 parking ticket but opted to stay short of an arrest. I thought I could do without the interaction with the criminal justice system. This ticket is a hardship for me, and the trip was exhausting. The plight of these people needs to be addressed. As many of the signs pointed out, deportations are inhumane.

The juxtaposition of this protest with the recent events in Jerusalem gave me some insight.

What is common about these 2 situations is the idea of self-identity.  Israelis have considered Jerusalem to be their capital for a very long time with all of their government offices there.  The rest of the world has not chosen to acknowledge this identity for reasons of peace with the community that surrounds Israel.  It is difficult because, the shadow of anitsemitism (as with racism) is always present in every evaluation of Jewish relations with the world, and therefore criticism has to be carefully considered.  It is not that these communities are always right, or above criticism.  Indeed they are diverse communities – a fact that is often ignored.  Rather it is that because of existent bias, one has to be able to determine what is culturally relevant to the history of this group, and understand why others without this history may not see things the same way, and then screen this difference very carefully for harmful bias, that many people are not even aware that they possess, which can be strengthened or “validated” by positions.

Rabbi Polack gave a talk last night on nonviolent Israeli-Palestinian conflict resolution, and there was an interesting point raised during the course of the talk.  The conflict can be seen in its earliest inception with Abraham, Hagar, Sarah, Ishmael, and Isaac.  Ishmael may be stronger (older) and the first born, but Sarah was Hagar’s master, and therefore, when her own son, Isaac, was born, her son took preference, although the original birth of Ishmael was to have been considered Sara’s birth by proxy.  Hierarchy notwithstanding, it was apparently up to Abraham to settle the peace in his own household, and he felt that the only way to do this was to cast Hagar and Ishmael out into the wilderness.

So here we are 3000 years later.  Isaac (Israel) has almost been sacrificed (on the mountain) with the Holocaust.  The world has determined that they were almost willing to allow the Jewish people to be exterminated in the most horrific way, and so we are left with a “saved” people who must express their right to exist in the face of the most horrific aggression against their own families and lives.  They need boundaries.  They need a country.  It was logical that their original homeland be considered for this.

So, what to do with Hagar and Ishmael (the Palestinians)?  In modern sensibilities, you can’t just kick them out into the wilderness.  This may have worked 3000 years ago, but in today’s world, all sides are empowered to the point where negotiation and settlement are needed.

So, Isaac (Israel) says, “I may not have been the firstborn, but I have decided to have that identity.  The rest of the world may not see me this way, but it is my identity, and in the spirit of self-determination, this is the image that I choose.”  In reality, there is little that changes significantly on the basis of this identity crisis.  The Palestinians are not being asked to evacuate their homes.  They are not even being forced to recognize the Jewish claim of Jerusalem as Israel’s capitol.

Now, the US (Abraham?) steps in and says “We choose to acknowledge Israel’s claim to identity.”  Did the US overstep?  Our friends probably have the right to agree.  Still, Isaac and Ishmael have to make their own living situations.  They have to live with the consequences of how they treat one another.

In the end, it is better to have friends.  It is better to say, “You are my brother, and although I would rather see things differently than you see them, I do value you as a part of this family.”


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Important Action

I write this message today to give people some time for discernment on how they want to participate in this event. Another arrest is planned for this Wednesday, Dec. 6, along the same lines of what happened Nov. 1. The action is designed to deliberately have a government documented protest against government intervention in family lives by the deportation of undocumented children – basically supporting a congressional renewal of DACA, which was recently repealed.

Can an undocumented person defend themselves with this protest without undue fear and consequence?

If one can defend oneself, why should we care about others who can’t? Isn’t it too risky to get a criminal record over this question?

The results of the first protest were published on Nov. 1.

The time to act:

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The high holidays started. Although this is a time of peace, the struggles over the past few weeks had escalated to the point of almost being unmanageable. It crossed my mind on more than one occasion that I might not be in the right frame of mind to participate. Like Abraham, I was tested. So, here I was in what is quite traditionally a return to very Jewish identity, the Holocaust as the ultimate rationale for nationhood and borders, the state of Israel. And yet the head of this both young and old state apparently supporting an angry intolerance of two different states – North Korea and Iran. The disconnect between authority and people has rarely seemed so palpable – as Tillerson eloquently put it, “The President speaks for himself.” So, pro-Israel, but not the one that supports the warlike posture of the leader of the country I live in, I answer the call to be present on Rosh Hashanah, nevertheless understanding that “Silence is not an option.”

We are perhaps just noticeably fewer at the synagogue (parking was a little easier). The service was healing in spite of the wounds that it revisited. We were offered a poet’s response to Muriel Rukeyser’s poem, written during world war II “To be a Jew in the 20th century“, with a seemingly more open posture. As the service moved through the traditional passage on restoring purity, only one person walked out, although many probably mentally made the walk. There was only one overt laugh during the prayer for our country at the line “Let our country be an example to the rest of the world.” And then there was the traditional reading of the binding of Isaac. We were all called to the bimah during the reading, and this year, for the first time, I noticed that none of the women around me said the words. Every year we have struggled with the meaning of this story, interpreting it in different ways. Was it the answer to adolescence – “Don’t look to your father to save you, be a man, only G_d saves.”? Was it the end of child sacrifice- one anthropological explanation? Or was it a “horror movie”-like once-in-a-lifetime Durkheimian-Jungian enaction that evoked a tribal reexperience of fear and then celebration at survival – a sociological and anthropological explanation? Does everything hinge on the word “we” meaning that Abraham knew he would return with his son? Or does everything hinge on the word “tested” meaning it was “for real”? As Abraham raises the knife to his son, I step down from the bimah, and then quickly return as the angel appears to stay his hand. It was my expression of this teleological suspension of the ethical – the asking of the taking of a life that is not yours, but rather G_d’s, to take.

I kept thinking about it, and eventually this year I understood a different meaning. The message was about humility. It was about accepting an origin of being unworthy of life, that only by the grace of an angel is our life spared or given to us. And this is the meaning of the words “only son” as the story is told in the Jewish text. Our people have no greater origin. I remember the stones that are symbolically thrown for the women who would save their sons in other traditions, and I am yet not silent.

Be at peace.

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